game-on-coaching-kevin-strum-logo-transparent.png
Daily Reflection
June 9, 2026
“Don’t give up. Don’t ever give up.”
— Jim Valvano

What dream have you given up on because the road became too difficult or the possibility of success seemed too remote?

All of us have dreams.

Things we would like to accomplish.

Goals we hope to achieve.

Visions that excite us and energize us as we pursue them.

Inevitably, life throws a monkey wrench into our plans.

Every year, 32 NFL teams begin the season with one goal in mind:

Winning the Super Bowl.

Along the way things happen.

Star players get hurt.

Coaches get fired.

The ball bounces the wrong way.

Officials make questionable calls.

Promising seasons suddenly unravel.

And at the end of the year, only one team is left standing.

It isn’t always the most talented team that wins.

Often, it is the team that navigates adversity the best.

The team that refuses to give up when things become difficult.

As a lifelong Buffalo Bills fan, I vividly remember watching the Bills lose four consecutive Super Bowls.

They were one of the most talented teams in football.

In the first Super Bowl, a last-second field goal sailed wide right and a championship slipped away.

Most people remember the losses.

What they forget is the resilience.

The Bills came back.

Again.

And again.

And again.

To this day, no other team has appeared in four consecutive Super Bowls.

Only two teams in NFL history have even returned to the Super Bowl after losing it the previous year.

What often gets overlooked is the incredible resilience required to keep showing up after that level of disappointment.

And the story didn’t end there.

Bills fans endured the Music City Miracle.

They endured thirteen seconds.

They endured nearly two decades without a playoff appearance.

Yet every year they return.

They fill stadiums.

They travel across the country.

Sometimes they seem louder than the home crowd.

Perhaps the brutal winters build resilience.

Or perhaps resilient people are simply drawn to Buffalo.

Either way, there may not be a more resilient fan base in sports.

They never stop believing.

The dream you’ve set aside may still be possible.

The goal you’ve placed on the shelf may still be waiting.

The opportunity you abandoned may be far closer than you think.

What if the next attempt succeeds?

Don’t quit three feet from gold.

More Refelctions

Discipline was never the destination.

It was always the vehicle. Throughout the week we explored the small decisions that shape our lives. The tasks we procrastinate. The challenges we...

“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit.”
— Aristotle

Who are you becoming? Most of us spend a great deal of time thinking about what we want to achieve. The promotion. The championship. The business....

“It’s not that I’m so smart, it’s just that I stay with problems longer.”
— Albert Einstein

What if the difference between success and failure isn't talent at all? Most people assume that the most talented individuals and teams will...

“Don’t practice until you get it right. Practice until you can’t get it wrong.”

When was the last time life failed to cooperate with your plan? Most of us have experienced it. No matter how carefully we prepare, life has a way...

“When opportunity comes, it’s too late to prepare.”
— John Wooden

What is the last opportunity that slipped through your fingers? Most of us can think of one. A promotion. A new client. A leadership role. A...

“A lot of people say they want to be great, but they’re not willing to make the sacrifices necessary to achieve greatness.”
— Kobe Bryant

Everybody wants to be great until greatness requires something from them. I wanted to be an Olympian. I wanted to represent my country. I wanted to...

“Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out.”
— Robert Collier

Did you ever not even start a task because it looked too difficult or too complicated? Did you ever quit because you convinced yourself you would...

“Discipline is choosing between what you want now and what you want most.”

What should you be doing right now? Not later today. Not tomorrow. Right now. Deep down, most of us already know. The challenge isn't knowing. The...

Discipline: The Bridge Between Potential and Achievement

Everyone wants the outcome. The promotion. The championship. The successful business. The strong relationship. The meaningful legacy. What we often...

Life is not a straight line.

As we conclude our week on resilience, one lesson stands above all the others. There will be disappointments. There will be setbacks. There will be...