The Season Is Won in the Weeks Nobody’s Watching

For my first three years of high school football, we won two games. Total. Three years. Then came senior year. Before the season even started, our coaches took us away to camp — three workouts a day, out in the heat, nowhere to hide from it. When we got back to...

How to Find the Belief Before It Finds You

How to Find the Belief Before It Finds You Here is a simple practice I use with the leaders I coach. It takes about ten minutes and it is uncomfortable in exactly the right way. Finish these three sentences — honestly, not aspirationally — then interrogate each answer...

Are You Still Not Making Pancakes?

Are You Still Not Making Pancakes? My brother graduated college, moved into his first apartment, and decided to make pancakes. What came out of that pan was burnt on the outside and raw in the middle. A culinary disaster by any measure. His response? “I...

The Line I Keep Coming Back To

The Line I Keep Coming Back To Believing is seeing. Your record is real. I’m not telling you to ignore it. But your record is also just a history of what you’ve done so far — it was never a ceiling on what you’re capable of becoming. Somewhere right...

Building Belief Before You Have Proof

Building Belief Before You Have Proof If belief has to come first, how do you actually build it — in yourself, or in a team you lead? 1. Change the environment before you change the record. Our coaches didn’t run a normal preseason. They pulled us out of...